MonthJuly 2009

Unintentional match

Last week’s Tweets (up to 2009-07-13)

  • enjoyed the first hour of the day – woke up refreshed, got going on a few different things – but it’s been downhill from there. sigh. #
  • is feeling productive today – a walk to the wilds of Armley resulted in four things ticked off my to-do list. #
  • is both jealous of, and confused by, people who get tattoos that encapsulate that moment in their lives. #
  • had one of the worst driving lessons she’s had in a long time. driving confidence at an all time low. :( #
  • has had to fire Carbon from his position as “cat” after he failed to display the requisite amount of curiosity required for the role. #
  • discovers the downside of working entirely online. #ihateyouvirginmedia #
  • @johnleach surely you mean “thank’s” ;) in reply to johnleach #
  • dared to move the food for the stray cat from the path to inside the garden. stray cat doesn’t care either way but the magpies are livid. #
  • @xbaz i read that was “fucking awesome magician”, which would have been even more awesome. ;) in reply to xbaz #
  • says “ohhh, picard” as the stresses of the day come to an end. #
  • @Squiggle it’s our favourite too – and at the Brightbox office. it really spoils you for other tea, doesn’t it? in reply to Squiggle #
  • finds things hilarious this morning. hil-ar-ious. #
  • tried but failed to clean her laptop screen. It’s now both spattered AND smeared. 18 months of food dust and sneezes. #
  • had lovely pizza for lunch at Brio’s with Team Brightbox – got a little leftover for an afternoon snack too :) #
  • @paulhorsfall awesome! keep us posted on what you’re up to and about the wee shoes! :) in reply to paulhorsfall #
  • can’t believe she left her power supply at the office again, even after having a conversation about doing just that over lunch. Doh. #
  • is so sleepy, so very sleepy. #
  • ‘s poorly sick cat is nothing but stink and bones at the moment. very sad. :( #notatypo #
  • watches @johnleach play with a bouncy ball outside. it quickly went from bouncy-bouncy-weeee! to “how high can i bounce this”. #
  • @IdleSi Geekup’s on Wednesday 15th. We should be there. :) in reply to IdleSi #
  • had jolly nice cake with Katherine at the Bowery in Headingley. We’ve both had a tough week so we deserved sweet things. #
  • managed to last a whole 10 days before dropping her phone onto stone and denting it. #
  • is finding it very hard to stop tip-tapping away on her laptop and start the sewing project she’s been planning all day. #
  • thinks ‘a second earlier, a second later, i’d have just seen a very messy death.’ #
  • had a dream her ex-boyfriend was twittering under a random username. checked username’s profile on waking, it’s not him, phew. #
  • has been collecting copper wire coils from dead PSUs as well tidying out the junk under the eaves. off to bingley little theatre tonight. #
  • enjoyed the Senior and Advanced groups’ showcase at Bingley Little Theatre: I’ll be an asst drama tutor for the Senior group from Sept, fun! #

Dragonflies on flowers

Just playing with some wire this afternoon. Fingers hurt now.

wire dragonflies

Last week’s Tweets (up to 2009-07-06)

  • finally buys all the books that have been in her basket for weeks and weeks – a lovely hippy selection about chickens, cheese & leatherwork. #
  • @sugarquay no, not moved yet so the players are the old neighbours not new ones. moving sometime in the next few weeks, hopefully. in reply to sugarquay #
  • would not be surprised if their internet dies today: old lamppost on one side of the cable, new lamppost on the other. workmen look clumsy. #
  • watches a magpie mum practise tough love on her child to teach it to eat the cat food we’ve left out for the stray. #
  • @IdleSi i wish i’d seen the argh! bread before my lunch – i’d have replied with a surprised “oooh” bagel ;) in reply to IdleSi #
  • just got a stone in her shoe – the first time in years. thought that sort of thing died out in the 1980s, like white dog poo. #
  • doesn’t feel like she’s achieved much today. been tired :( #
  • watches the old lamppost being ripped out of the ground. I wonder what they do with them when they’re done… #
  • is surprised how easily said lamppost left the ground: it only took a bit of wiggling. will be so much easier to park outside the house now. #
  • forgot how good malted milk biscuits are when dipped in tea. #
  • isn’t found of the new white light lamppost outside the house: it’s like aliens landed and brought floodlights with them. #
  • just had the most stressful driving lesson ever. 2 mock tests then the car kept cutting out every time i took my foot of the gas. also hot! #
  • wants one thing to go her way this afternoon. ONE FUCKING THING. #
  • thinks it’s a close heat between who has a worse telephone-menu set-up: orange or hsbc. #
  • orange made me go through 6 menus and type in password digits then when it tried to pass me to a real person, said the call was barred. #
  • with hsbc, i jumped through 4 telephone banking hoops to book an appt at my local branch, then the person just emailed my branch my request. #
  • thinks it would have been quicker to have walked to the bank and might replace her mobile with a tin-can and string arrangement. #
  • returned home from the #brightbox office to find a box of books from amazon, hurrah. :) #
  • wonders if this crazy thing works now… #
  • fails to find a pattern/method to make umbrella-esque food covers. will have to buy one and reverse engineer it. #
  • is getting a lot of cat love now it’s raining and the felines have come in from sunbathing for the first non-mealtime time in a week. #
  • is glared at by a wet magpie – he wants to know where the outside dish of cat food is today. #
  • had the best frickin’ Friday lunch ever, from the Dutch Pot in Chapeltown. Jerk chicken, rice & peas, and a sweet, sweet festival. Yum! #
  • has been asked to point out that @johnleach brought home the jerk chicken and other Dutch Pot delights, and therefore deserves (my) worship. #
  • intended to stop working at 6pm. Actually stops working at 8:30pm. Long day. At least I get a full weekend to recover these days. #
  • is eating sausage for the third time in two days. #notaeuphemism #

Cutting to the Chase

I speed-read/flicked through ‘Cut to the Chase: and 99 Other Rules to Liberate Yourself and Gain Back the Gift of Time’ by Stuart R Levine the other night. It would have seemed inappropriate to have taken more time to read it more thoroughly, plus most of the stuff wasn’t relevant to me because it was about interactions in the executive layer of big companies.

Some points were really interesting though, and I thought I’d make a note of them here for when I lose the piece of paper I wrote my thoughts on originally. Some of them are relevant to me personally, some of them to lojoco, some of them to my new official involvement with Brightbox and some to all of the above.

  • Define your life goal so you don’t waste time – I initially scoffed at this because my life goal is to be happy and that involves a lot of what many people consider wasting time – being silly with my friends or playing video games for hours at a time. But John pointed out that it’s just as valid for me as anyone and it all comes down to the definition of wasting time. Video games aren’t a waste of time for me – they help me relax and as I’ve said before, they distract my conscious mind and let my subconscious work through tons of crap – but working a 60 hours week is a waste of my time. Sure, I might get lots of work finished, but I’ll be unhappy.
  • Thinking aloud wastes time – specifically, this was talking about thinking aloud in meetings. John and I think aloud all the time at home – we joke we have shared mind with double processing capacity – and in brainstorming sessions, it’s absolutely invaluable. But in regular meetings, it just wastes everyone’s time. Think, make a decision and present it.
  • Provide executive summaries in speech as well as writing – not necessarily sections at the start of documents called “executive summaries” but make your point early, don’t wait for the end. Make your point then sell it.
  • Analyse successes as well as failures – people often focus on why things went wrong, not why they’re going right. Knowing why things are working can stop them becoming failures in the future.
  • Build momentum – and build it into the plan – this is currently most obvious in terms of project management but I think it’s also relevant in marketing. Build it by achieving a run of smaller successes before focusing on a big one.
  • Appeal to people’s self-interest – a marketing one.
  • Close the communication loop – this is something I’m terrible at doing – receiving emails then marking them as “action needed” then not thinking about them again until it’s too late. I might have missed out on something or caused the person to worry the message hadn’t arrived. I do this all the frickin’ time. Part of this is a problem with how I treat email: I read it as it comes in as a matter of course instead of when I’m ready to deal with it. If the job will take less than five minutes, I should deal with it straight away instead of marking it “action needed” and ignoring it (and sometimes fretting about it) for a few weeks afterwards. If the job takes longer or requires some input I can’t get immediately, I should close the loop rather than leaving the other person handing – it takes just seconds to drop them an email saying “got this message, am working on it and will get back to you by x“. I’ve been trying to do this for the last few days and it’s actually relieves my stress/worry as well as the other person’s. Two thumbs up to this idea, big thumbs up.
  • Measure twice, cut once – the old craftsperson saying. It wastes less resources (whether time or actual physical resources) to plan properly first rather than fixing a mess afterwards.
  • Don’t be afraid of 10 minute meetings – this is something I’m going to write about more in another blog post I’ve got planned but there seems to be a collective idea of meetings being an hour in length by default, half an hour if it’s a quickee, and people feel bad if that time isn’t filled. Book it in mentally – and in the diary – for 10 minutes instead.
  • Stay in touch with clients and partners – and not just about the specific nature of your precise business relationship, learn about their world: there might be new ways you can work together or, conversely, if you know they’re in a slump, you won’t bank on them so much.
  • If you need a drummer, hire a drummer – not a guy who can play the drums but lives for the piano, to quote the example used in the book. In personal terms, if my heart is not into something, I shouldn’t be forcing myself to do it if there are other options.
  • Don’t be afraid to hire people who will move on – good people will nearly always move on to other things because they want to keep growing and trying new things. But that’s not a reason to hire them: better getting someone who burns brightly for a year than someone who emits a dull glimmer for a decade.
  • Recognise that good enough is good enough – something else I struggle with a lot with things I make or do: if something isn’t 100% perfect or a 100% success, I consider it a failure. This has been a lifelong affliction (at school, if I got an A, I was disappointed it wasn’t an A+ rather than enjoying the A) so it’s going to be hard to shift but perfectionism is debilitating.
  • Know when to stop when you’re struggling – when a task isn’t going anywhere, stop. Rather than focusing on the next sentence or whatever, work how what help/advice/input could help you take it forward rather than just staring at the blank page.
  • Similarly, don’t confuse activity with accomplishment – because of the perfectionism listed above, I have re-crocheted some balls of yarn a dozen times. I feel like I’m crocheting all the time but haven’t made anything. (I have, admittedly, learned a lot about tension and shaping though, so perhaps bad example.)
  • Finally, if you hear the same complaint/request from two customers, act on it – obviously it’s a good idea/serious problem act on it after hearing from the first one but hearing it from two separate people is proper confirmation that something needs to be done, or at the very very least, looked at.

All in all, the book was worth getting out of the library for a quick flick through but I wouldn’t particularly recommend buying it though – there wasn’t enough it in that I felt I’d have to read it all one day.