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Cutting to the Chase

I speed-read/flicked through ‘Cut to the Chase: and 99 Other Rules to Liberate Yourself and Gain Back the Gift of Time’ by Stuart R Levine the other night. It would have seemed inappropriate to have taken more time to read it more thoroughly, plus most of the stuff wasn’t relevant to me because it was about interactions in the executive layer of big companies.

Some points were really interesting though, and I thought I’d make a note of them here for when I lose the piece of paper I wrote my thoughts on originally. Some of them are relevant to me personally, some of them to lojoco, some of them to my new official involvement with Brightbox and some to all of the above.

  • Define your life goal so you don’t waste time – I initially scoffed at this because my life goal is to be happy and that involves a lot of what many people consider wasting time – being silly with my friends or playing video games for hours at a time. But John pointed out that it’s just as valid for me as anyone and it all comes down to the definition of wasting time. Video games aren’t a waste of time for me – they help me relax and as I’ve said before, they distract my conscious mind and let my subconscious work through tons of crap – but working a 60 hours week is a waste of my time. Sure, I might get lots of work finished, but I’ll be unhappy.
  • Thinking aloud wastes time – specifically, this was talking about thinking aloud in meetings. John and I think aloud all the time at home – we joke we have shared mind with double processing capacity – and in brainstorming sessions, it’s absolutely invaluable. But in regular meetings, it just wastes everyone’s time. Think, make a decision and present it.
  • Provide executive summaries in speech as well as writing – not necessarily sections at the start of documents called “executive summaries” but make your point early, don’t wait for the end. Make your point then sell it.
  • Analyse successes as well as failures – people often focus on why things went wrong, not why they’re going right. Knowing why things are working can stop them becoming failures in the future.
  • Build momentum – and build it into the plan – this is currently most obvious in terms of project management but I think it’s also relevant in marketing. Build it by achieving a run of smaller successes before focusing on a big one.
  • Appeal to people’s self-interest – a marketing one.
  • Close the communication loop – this is something I’m terrible at doing – receiving emails then marking them as “action needed” then not thinking about them again until it’s too late. I might have missed out on something or caused the person to worry the message hadn’t arrived. I do this all the frickin’ time. Part of this is a problem with how I treat email: I read it as it comes in as a matter of course instead of when I’m ready to deal with it. If the job will take less than five minutes, I should deal with it straight away instead of marking it “action needed” and ignoring it (and sometimes fretting about it) for a few weeks afterwards. If the job takes longer or requires some input I can’t get immediately, I should close the loop rather than leaving the other person handing – it takes just seconds to drop them an email saying “got this message, am working on it and will get back to you by x“. I’ve been trying to do this for the last few days and it’s actually relieves my stress/worry as well as the other person’s. Two thumbs up to this idea, big thumbs up.
  • Measure twice, cut once – the old craftsperson saying. It wastes less resources (whether time or actual physical resources) to plan properly first rather than fixing a mess afterwards.
  • Don’t be afraid of 10 minute meetings – this is something I’m going to write about more in another blog post I’ve got planned but there seems to be a collective idea of meetings being an hour in length by default, half an hour if it’s a quickee, and people feel bad if that time isn’t filled. Book it in mentally – and in the diary – for 10 minutes instead.
  • Stay in touch with clients and partners – and not just about the specific nature of your precise business relationship, learn about their world: there might be new ways you can work together or, conversely, if you know they’re in a slump, you won’t bank on them so much.
  • If you need a drummer, hire a drummer – not a guy who can play the drums but lives for the piano, to quote the example used in the book. In personal terms, if my heart is not into something, I shouldn’t be forcing myself to do it if there are other options.
  • Don’t be afraid to hire people who will move on – good people will nearly always move on to other things because they want to keep growing and trying new things. But that’s not a reason to hire them: better getting someone who burns brightly for a year than someone who emits a dull glimmer for a decade.
  • Recognise that good enough is good enough – something else I struggle with a lot with things I make or do: if something isn’t 100% perfect or a 100% success, I consider it a failure. This has been a lifelong affliction (at school, if I got an A, I was disappointed it wasn’t an A+ rather than enjoying the A) so it’s going to be hard to shift but perfectionism is debilitating.
  • Know when to stop when you’re struggling – when a task isn’t going anywhere, stop. Rather than focusing on the next sentence or whatever, work how what help/advice/input could help you take it forward rather than just staring at the blank page.
  • Similarly, don’t confuse activity with accomplishment – because of the perfectionism listed above, I have re-crocheted some balls of yarn a dozen times. I feel like I’m crocheting all the time but haven’t made anything. (I have, admittedly, learned a lot about tension and shaping though, so perhaps bad example.)
  • Finally, if you hear the same complaint/request from two customers, act on it – obviously it’s a good idea/serious problem act on it after hearing from the first one but hearing it from two separate people is proper confirmation that something needs to be done, or at the very very least, looked at.

All in all, the book was worth getting out of the library for a quick flick through but I wouldn’t particularly recommend buying it though – there wasn’t enough it in that I felt I’d have to read it all one day.

Last week’s Tweets (up to 2009-06-29)

  • @xbaz us too! now i have to walk to the shop before i can have my cereal. boo. in reply to xbaz #
  • can’t wait until her desk and printer are in the same room, not two floors apart. #
  • loves the smell of wet cat. #notaeuphemism #
  • suspects she’ll be upgrading her OS this evening. what fun! #
  • changes her application and desktop fonts to comic sans just to see @johnleach grimace #
  • is trying to get used to her long-awaited ubuntu upgrade – suspect i won’t notice the changes that benefit me, just the annoying niggles #
  • has her bookmarks from a year ago instead of her current list after an upgrade snafu. funny how much it’s changed. #
  • adds twister ice lollies into the deliciousness hall of fame, alongside vimto and encona sauce. #
  • is waiting, impatiently. #
  • is now riding a giant wave of frustration. #
  • worked out her frustration by trimming the fuchsia bush. trimming it with a big saw. #
  • has not found any mindmapping/brainstorming software that comes close to beating a pencil and big piece of paper. #
  • feels cleaner after restyling a messy document. #
  • finds it very strange writing formal, serious work-related emails to people she’s met socially #
  • is decidedly unimpressed with lloyds tsb fraud prevention efforts. #
  • had a charity shop win. took 6 bags of stuff in & got a complete set of ugly-ace 1970s crockery, which matches our existing set, for £3.80. #
  • got a tshirt&comic from liz prince (http://lizprincepower.com/) the other day. post from an internet famous person! http://twitpic.com/8kquw #
  • “enjoyed” a modern day re-enactment of Romeo & Juliet last night between two drunk, repugnant neighbours. #
  • That rock through yonder window breaks. It is my house and Juliet has locked the door…. #
  • … Arise, fair Armley, and kill the ugly bitch. Who is already sick and pale with hangover. #
  • [POLICE enter. ROMEO is manhandled into a police car. Exit] #
  • declares the ankle to be the funny bone of the foot, ie, it hurts disproportionately when you bang it. #
  • has spent years trying to woo @johnleach with intellectual humour & wonderpuns but made him laugh more than ever today with a silly walk. #

Summer in Armley, part two

(As originally posted on my Twitter thingy.)

louisa_ “enjoyed” a modern day re-enactment of Romeo & Juliet last night between two drunk, repugnant neighbours.

ROMEO: That rock through yonder window breaks.
It is my house and Juliet has locked the door.
Arise, fair Armley, and kill the ugly bitch.
Who is already sick and pale with hangover.

[POLICE enter. ROMEO is manhandled into a police car. Exit]

(This follows on from last year’s “Summer in Armley” post.)

Last week’s Tweets (up to 2009-06-22)

  • is delighted that for the first time in nearly 4 years, she doesn’t have to read any tabloid newspapers for work today. hoorah for change. #
  • doesn’t mind thunder but dislikes lightening. after years in a dark house with @johnleach, super loud noises don’t scare me but light, eeek! #
  • dries her cat after he, evidently, chose to stay out in the rain. #
  • has had an interesting evening but shall leave it at that for now because it’s so much fun keeping Katherine in suspense. ;) #
  • is glad she woke up fractionally before the pneumatic drill started. #
  • and @johnleach have a new streetlight outside their house – will be strange for nights to be white-lit, after a lifetime of orange. #
  • tends the oregano, basil, mint and rosemary growing in the garden – my hands now smell great :) #
  • now has hands smelling of vinegar rather than herbs – shiny clean (albeit a little streaky) windows though! #
  • hopes to fall asleep before the caffeine from her ill-advised evening cup of tea kicks in. had it with good cake though. #
  • starts the day doing something she usually leaves until last – wonder how that will affect procrastination/productivity… #
  • watches a magpie eating cat food left out for the stray cat. Sili’s watching too and imagining a cat food-filled bird – chirp! chirp! #
  • would like to know how SEOers justify charging a monthly fee for a site with static content. not being aggressive, I’d really like to know. #
  • saved 12p on a tshirt order from the US because of an exchange rate change between adding it to my cart & buying it 2 days later. score! ;) #
  • is frustrated: in the last few weeks, I’ve tried to offer two companies my b2b custom but they have no contact details on their websites. #
  • had an awesome time at GeekUp. Talked about absolutely everything and put the world to rights. Solution to all problems: I’m put in charge. #
  • listened to her snooze alarm beeping for 40 minutes then had to eat her cereal in the car. #
  • @IdleSi yep, http://tinyurl.com/bradford-listed – i had it bookmarked because we nearly bought one ;) in reply to IdleSi #
  • watches a big cat lapping milk in time with @johnleach’s ukelele playing – they finish at the same time too. #
  • is going for curry. hurrah! #
  • and @johnleach are going to look around their new house again today. excited! excited! #
  • is now even more excited about the new house now. we’ll have windows! and trees! and secret cupboards! and secret windows! #
  • and @johnleach have a new cunning idea that could make the new house even more exciting and awesome. perhaps too exciting. #
  • @Squiggle ok, now we have two possibly too exciting ideas for the new house. ;) in reply to Squiggle #
  • is having her first Sunday off in 3.5+ years. been to the farmers’ market and the pub so far – wonderful. #

Last week’s Tweets (up to 2009-06-15)

  • discovers an ink blotch on her forearm from last night’s late night diary writing. #
  • listens to @johnleach make cereal/serial jokes. is not amused. #
  • is presently particularly partial to pickled peppers. #
  • has crossed everything off her to-do list for today and @johnleach is making paneer and chickpea curry for tea: double win! #
  • had a lovely meal at Cooper’s in Guiseley with Katherine. Had a bad driving lesson before then: better driving backwards than forwards now. #
  • dreamt of salty sea dogs. #
  • can’t wait to be working in our new office in the new house – craving music and space. #
  • reads some comments that don’t help her mood one bit, even though she knows the remarks are just trolling. sigh. #
  • feeds the cats a big pile of meat to celebrate it being 10yrs since Carla, Carbon & I adopted each other. Gave a short unappreciated speech. #
  • had a surreal 1930s themed trip to the cinema this evening. Probably ate more crap than they did in the 1930s, laughed more too. #
  • got “chased” by two horses on the way to the hairdressers – they were running, I wasn’t. i will miss armley. #
  • had to bite her tongue several times at the hairdressers. Everyone repeating myths about nutrition, diet & sex education as the truth. sigh. #
  • hasn’t done as much work as she should have done this afternoon but nevermind. been a good, busy week all in all. time to sit in the sun. #
  • had a lovely day in Harrogate with @johnleach. ate lemon & lime cheesecake and bought binoculars from oxfam & fabric for bunting. #
  • can smell the neighbours’ bbqs and now has super-mad bbq cravings. #
  • is having to work today because PastLouisa_ was slack on Friday but is getting ahead on some stuff too so FutureLouisa_ likes her tomorrow. #
  • has another wonderfully long conversation with @johnleach & @thattommyhall. world not put to rights, just decided everyone is confused. #

Last week’s Tweets (up to 2009-06-07)

  • woke up feeling perfectly rested this morning. a novel experience. #
  • finally gave Recycle This the long, long, awaited redesign that it very much needed. New features to follow. http://www.recyclethis.co.uk/ #
  • has a re-pinkened arm after a driving lesson and wonders if having a truckers’ tan will help her pass her test. #
  • wonders how she could implement blog-style tags in her offline pen & paper diary for easier categorisation/browsing… any suggestions? #
  • thought maybe coloured tabs in specific positions on the side of pages would work – would limit the max. number of tags but that might be ok #
  • woke up two minutes before her alarm for the second time in a row this morning, very strange. #
  • is too hot to be proactive at the moment. #
  • spent the afternoon doing some quite major pruning in the garden. got a blister and very very sticky. showered now and feel ace. #
  • is keen to point out at @johnleach was not being euphemistic in this tweet – http://twitter.com/johnleach/status/2007077575 #
  • watches a cat trying out different plantpots for size: “this is a little small but the foliage is more cushioning than in the other one”. #
  • feels like screaming. #
  • wonders which will break first @johnleach or her unicycle. #
  • thinks it’ll be both, at the same time, spectacularly. probably a good thing i don’t want to have children too. #
  • is glad the afternoon is ending on a high note – some great news after hours and hours of stress. #
  • @tim_waters we’ve got an 850W and all the instructions i read are for 800W. perhaps we should swap food. in reply to tim_waters #
  • hasn’t drunk nearly enough liquid today. my brain feels like a raisin. #
  • is feeling strangely low despite an awesome lunch and it being the weekend tomorrow. swimming this afternoon though. #
  • can smell rice. mmm. #
  • enjoyed fish & chips with @johnleach in horsforth park last night then went to @thattommyhall’s for tea, wombling & discussion of everything #
  • is listening to @johnleach serenading the cooking sausages with his ukelele & falsetto vocals. a day of nothingness awaits, hurrah. #
  • is stuffed after a lovely meal at little tokyo. should do something productive this evening but probably won’t. #