1. John falls over laughing after Z’s deadpan act on the slide.

1b. While Z is having a bit of a tantrum, I hand little J Lily’s lead. She delightedly clings on when Lily begins to pull the pram along, a one dog sled team.

2. The first bites, when the cheese is a little too hot but irresistible. The stone baked dough, just the right level of baked.

2b. A heavy, thick brownie with delicious orangey high notes.

2c. I start a joke not knowing what the punchline will be but just in time, my brain fills in a stonker. (One of those ‘had to be there’ moments, but for future Louisa, think ‘I hate mondeos’.)

3. M comes over in the evening. We laugh a lot and say goodbye, excited by his future plans.